Spoken Words

It is foolish to speak scornfully of others. If you are smart, you will keep quiet.—Proverbs 11:12 GNT

I’ve heard the saying that spoken words are like an egg, once broken; it is impossible to put back together (which reminds me of an old nursery rhyme!). Anyway, that analogy regarding spoken words is very true, especially if they are negative words or lies. And when found out, you find yourself backpedaling or trying to dig yourself out of a hole you’ve dug for yourself.

Today’s verse refers to how we talk about others. For instance, someone offended you, and to get back at them, you start telling others things that were told to you in confidence. Or you try to gaslight or belittle them by sharing their weaknesses or mistakes.

As Christians, whether at work, in church or in the community, such behaviour doesn’t display the mind and likeness of Christ. This doesn’t mean that if someone is putting themselves in danger by associating with a particular person that you should keep quiet about it. In such cases, it will be wise to make your concerns known.

In James chapter 3, James discusses the tongue and the importance of controlling it. He explains how humans can tame or train a variety of wild animals, such as tigers, lions, and bears, but unfortunately we can’t tame our tongues.

“But no one has ever been able to tame the tongue. It is evil and uncontrollable, full of deadly poison. We use it to give thanks to our Lord and Father and also to curse other people, who are created in the likeness of God. Words of thanksgiving and cursing pour out from the same mouth. My friends, this should not happen! No spring of water pours out sweet water and bitter water from the same opening.” James 3:8-11 (GNT)

As believers, our words are meant to encourage and bless others, no matter who they are.

“Thoughtless words can wound as deeply as any sword, but wisely spoken words can heal.” Proverbs 12:18 (GNT)

“What you say can preserve life or destroy it; so you must accept the consequences of your words.” Proverbs 18:21 (GNT)

When you spread rumours or gossip about others, it reveals the type of person you are and, in turn, costs you the respect and trust of those around you.

So, as you go into a new week, surrender your conversations to God. Pray He uses your words to positively encourage and build someone up. Weigh your words and be mindful of what you say to others and about others.

Stay blessed,

LaraLex