This High Priest of ours understands our weaknesses, for he faced all of the same testings we do, yet he did not sin. So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most. — Hebrews 4:15-16 NLT
Many bear the wounds and scars of life having experienced setbacks, defeats and failure. Experiencing trials such as living in a violent relationship, estranged from children, failed marriage, failed business, bankruptcy, drug and alcohol dependent, to mention a few.
In 1983, after my final secondary school exams, I found myself unable to gain admission to university or other higher institutions. Even after resitting some subjects to boost my chances of university admission, I spent the next six years at home!
It was devastating to know that in those six years, my friends and some classmates had already graduated from university and others gainfully employed. Those six years were hard! I was frustrated with life, and I often took out my frustration on those close to me. My love for current affairs, music and song writing somehow kept me sane and hopeful.
The wounds and scars of life are not without reason, purpose or benefit. Experiences such as mine and others with even worse cases, are never wasted. There are positive lessons and great wisdom that can emerge from suffering, pain and setbacks if we’re willing to learn.
There is something about the wisdom of someone who’s written several job applications and unsuccessful at many interviews before finally securing a position. Or a woman who has experienced several miscarriages and then finally becoming a mother. Or a parent who had to care for their severely disabled child. These people carry in them a vast wealth of wisdom and are qualified to encourage others who are going through or experiencing similar life issues.
“Even though Jesus was God’s Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered. In this way, God qualified him as a perfect High Priest…” Hebrews 5:8-9 (NLT). As believers, we have an added advantage because we are not alone when we navigate life. Jesus doesn’t merely show compassion to those who are suffering but has taken on Himself the feeling of our weaknesses. He is qualified to do this, give support, and encourage us in our times of trouble because He Himself has passed through trial.
As believers, we need to be careful how we relate with people who are going through tough time. It’s not helpful when believers sometimes associate people’s troubles with lack of prayer or giving or expecting them to “grow up” and “grow out” of their troubles. God is patient with us, He knows our weaknesses and our struggles and empowers us through His Holy Spirit to overcome them.
We may have cried, prayed, and fasted for God to change a situation. And faithfully, God may change the situation or choose to change us instead. We are encouraged in our scripture for today to come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most.
Stay blessed,
LaraLex
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